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From: <ScottBonis@ao*.co*>
Date: Thu, 24 May 2001 17:22:22 EDT
Subject: Re: Trimix Computers
To: techdiver@aquanaut.com
Hi Jim,

You may recall that you and I have butted heads a number of times in the 
past, as well as agreeing on various subjects also.  But I see another head 
butting coming on.

I have on numerous occasions chastised posters on the net for saying 
derogatory things about Trey.  Not ever for arguing about his opinions or 
advice (which are usually pretty sound), but for showing a lack of respect 
for his accomplishments and dedication to the sport of diving.  There comes a 
point that even if I disagree with what is being said, I must respect the 
speaker if he has earned a certain position in the community.  A freshman 
doesn't challenge a full professor.  He or she may question, but never accuse 
or direct.  After the freshman has graduated and contributed to the 
community, then he or she may argue.

Now I must request that you display a greater respect for several of the 
people in the dive community who don't happen to be associated with the WKPP 
or GUE.  Tom Mount, whether or not you agree with his dive techniques, is one 
of the clear leaders and outstanding figures in the technical diving 
community.  He at IANTD, along with Ed Betts at ANDI, Bret Gilliam at TDI, 
et. al. for example, are, whether or not you choose to accept it, among the 
true pioneers in technical diving.  These people and others like them, are 
our teachers and have devoted major portions of their lives to advancing 
diving techniques and making the sport safer for all of us.

Perhaps you now feel that some of the information being presented by these 
organizations has been superseded by new data that points in a new direction. 
 This may be so.  But it does not give you the right or even simply 
permission, to forget that these people and organizations have persevered and 
should have earned your respect.

Trey, by virtue of his unique position as a nonprofessional whose 
accomplishments, experience and contributions to the body of technical diving 
knowledge have earned him the respect of divers worldwide, happens to have a 
confrontational communication style.  Because of his position I, and most 
others who wish to learn, overlook this as a personal negative.  It is his 
way and we accept him for what he is and what he has to offer.  And we are 
appreciative for his time and efforts.

But make no mistake that you have certainly not earned a similar position.  
In my opinion, you have no business whatever telling Tom Mount or the others, 
what they SHOULD be doing.  They are the teachers and you are the student.  
They tell you.  You listen quietly, ask for more information, choose what is 
right for you and make your own decisions.  But you do not pretend to be on 
the level of your teachers and direct them.  That is pure ego.

Let's not forget that we live in an ordered society where true respect is 
earned over many years of accomplishment and service, not simply by who can 
yell the loudest or type the most curse words into his or her computer.  I 
consider myself really fortunate to have had the opportunity to learn from 
individuals of this caliber.

Jim, I think that you ought to consider this carefully and perhaps modify 
your approach when communicating with these folks.  And I need to say here 
that although this message is addressed to you Jim, I am actually also 
speaking to a number of the other posters on this list.

But then OTOH, this is simply one diver's opinion.

Take care and dive safe,       Scott

Some weeks it's just not worth the effort to gnaw through the restraints and 
scramble up out of the pit.



In a message dated 5/23/01 9:12:32 PM, cobber@ci*.co* writes:
<< Tom-
Maybe not but there are plenty of diveshops out there who would
love to sell some of these high margin pieces of shit and saying what you
said below is about as close to a promotion as you can get. Did you purchase
yours or was it a promo?
<snip>
Tom, as I recall you used to stuff the long hose, use bungee wings, use
steel stages, dive deep air, etc. Don't make this mistake too. >>
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