Dan Volker <dlv@ga*.ne*> writes: > I have not made nasty slams at many list members.... and I have made no > "religious" categorizations up until this Wrolf Courtney example. If his > nonsense was to stop, you'd hear no more "religious" type dialog by me. > I see him as a drug dealer entering a "decent" neighbor hood. Before him, it > was not perfect, but it was OK for all of us....Now, I have to decide if I > want to keep trying to get rid of him, or to just move out. It'd be one thing for somebody to keep saying "no, you're fine diving a steel tank/wetsuit/bondage combination" or advocating running the long hose off the wrong post (you did see several people correcting Mr. Walker, some more vehemently than others), but what I've seen from Wrolf is more a constant questioning of "why???" and demanding answers. I think Jammer gave the best answer to that, in his posting about his apprentice year in the construction trade. New guys have to learn that instruction isn't free and you can't badger those who know for the answers. Sitting back and listening is a valid answer. Going to a good instructor and paying him good money for his time spent carefully teaching you is valid too; we don't see your friend JJ posting here too often or giving advice for free; by all accounts he's one of the best, but he's not cheap. Doing your own research helps too, but you have to invest your own time in that and not try to obligate others to help. At the new-diver level, "just because" may be a valid answer, but by the technical level divers really do need to be able to explain the reasoning behind things. Ideally the new technical diver would have been "around the block" a few times as a recreational diver and be able to tell the difference between chicken shit and chicken salad, but it's hard to enforce that when people decide to start posting to Techdiver. Explaining "why" in a group like this is of benefit to more than just the person who asked; I may not think of all the questions, but I can try to benefit from all the answers. And announcing that something is the right answer isn't always sufficient. The logic behind that conclusion is necessary to prove that it really is the right solution. It's especially important when it's something like "The reason we do it this way is that then in an emergency you can do such-and-such"; a person may be rigged perfectly, but if they don't know the reasoning behind it, they cannot react appropriately if that situation comes up. I've seen over and over again in different discussion groups on the net that a knowledgeable person will come along and post helpful advice in response to questions posted by various newbies, but when posting the same answers the second or third time around, burnout sets in. Add in the fact that in most contexts bad info isn't life-threatening but here it is, and of course your frustration level is going to go through the roof. A lot of groups traditionally had Frequently-Asked-Questions lists ("the FAQ") with a compendium of the best answers, and that would head off most of the common issues. That list would be posted monthly or so. Nowadays web pages are a valid alternative; the excellent sites Ken Sallot and Jeff Bentley have put up contain many of the good answers. -- Anthony DeBoer <adb@on*.ca*> -- Send mail for the `techdiver' mailing list to `techdiver@aquanaut.com'. Send subscribe/unsubscribe requests to `techdiver-request@aquanaut.com'.
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