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Date: Fri, 10 May 2002 23:21:11 +1000
Subject: The courage of your own convictions
From: Dean Laffan <email@re*.co*.au*>
To: <techdiver@aquanaut.com>
I originally sent the following to Jim off list, but since that piece of
crap was posted I asked his permission to re post it to the list.

God knows it's nothing profound or so important you HAVE to know, but I
refuse to let bullshit like that go unchallenged or to let the dick head
that wrote it believe we are sitting here acceptingly, thinking he is
anything other than a gutless wimp. There is ONE guy in this whole
discussion leading the way with class and courage.

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on 8/5/02 4:15 AM, James Cobb at cobber@ci*.co* wrote:

> Don't pass judgment on this course from the posts. I am serious, DIR
> fundamentals will open your eyes. If you get a chance to take it, Ted, don't
> pass it up. If you are already a super diver then the course will make you a
> better one, I have no doubts on this. I should have stuck with it as I
> missed some really super material on the next day even though that first day
> made up my mind that I was going to bag the sport until I can do it right.

Hi Jim

We had to postpone our Downunder Fundamentals course to November in Sydney,
but I am looking forward (with more trepidation now than I was earlier!) to
finding out where the bar is, and where I am relative to it. I am so fucking
sick cyber-DIR-diving ;-(

Of course we can dive anytime, bit there's no substitute for the real thing,
getting Andrew and JJ here will be unreal.

> I am aware of and have developed techniques to overcome some of my
> shortcomings, but most techniques were based on the "I sure hope to hell I
> don't have to actually do this one day, or I'm fucked" frame of mind. This
> is not a responsible frame of mind for a married guy with 2 young kids.

I also have three small children. DIR is the ONLY way I can justify (to
myself and my wife, who is familiar with the principles) my tech and
especially cave diving. I ONLY dive with 5 other DIR oriented guys her in
Melbourne.

I hope that when the course comes, I am able to have the same courage of my
convictions as you have demonstrated and react accordingly. I salute you.
Good luck in getting back in the water at a level to your own satisfaction
asap !

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I would add one other thing. It's often said in any cave course that:


"Anyone can call the dive, at any time, for any reason"  Jim has exercised
that right in the pool (literally).

On a testosterone driven list like this, what Jim did takes guts and a very
strong, self composed character.  Anonymous, point scoring pussies who don't
have the basic decency to post under their own name ? ... well that's all I
need to know abut their character.

Where is this 'hero' going to be when the ship hits the sand ?  Would you
put your life in the hands of a coward like that .. ?  Not this little black
duck.

Jim, I'd dive with you any day.




Safe Diving


dean laffan
real world productions
melbourne, australia
ph +613-9419-3966
Mobile 0418-525-315


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