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From: "Horhay Erbeenay" <underwaterapplications@cs*.co*>
To: "Techdiver" <techdiver@aquanaut.com>
Subject: Tech Instructors/Divers
Date: Tue, 1 Dec 1998 14:42:11 -0500
Important Notice: Many Tech Instructors May Suffer From Unrealistically High
Self-Images

WASHINGTON, DC--According to an American Psychological Association report
released Tuesday, a large percentage of U.S. Technical Diving Instructors
may suffer from unrealistically high self-images, placing them at risk of a
host of emotional and interpersonal problems.

The study--which examined the attitudes and self-perceptions of over 600
Trimix and Technical Nitrox Instructors in areas accross the U.S., including
Detroit, Key West, San Diego, Miami, Boston, New York, and New Jersey--found
that nearly 95 percent of those surveyed suffered from a distorted sense of
their own prowess, particularly with regard to wealth, sexual potency and
influence over other divers.

"While personal confidence is a vital aspect of building a healthy
self-image, an exaggerated sense of self can lead to trouble," APA study
head Dr. Judith Danziger said. "The overconfidence these divers display can
have a wide range of negative consequences, from receiving humiliating flame
mail from a superior diver to getting bent on a no-decompression dive."

Often, Danziger said, rappers' inflated, unrealistic self-images get carried
over into their interpersonal relationships, adversely affecting their
ability to establish healthy, mutually fulfilling long-term relationships
with members of the opposite sex.

"One new trimix instructor I spoke with told me that he 'be trading women
like Eddie Murphy trading places' and that he 'got bitches cleaning my
house, washin' my gear, fillin' my tanks," Danziger said. "For a
relationship to thrive, there needs to be a sense of shared responsibility
and mutual respect. When one partner is cleaning the other's house and dive
gear, the partner who is doing the cleaning is likely to experience feelings
of resentment over the imbalance. Inevitably, this will drive a wedge
between the pair."

"Another diver I spoke with told me that he has a bitch who will suck his
**** until he ***, **** ** ** *** ***, and ***** that **** back up,"
Danziger said. "While a strong sense of sexual adventurousness and a
willingness to experiment is a great way to keep a relationship fresh over
the long haul, it only works if that spirit of adventure is reciprocated,
and the man is willing to try new things to please the woman. With many of
these divers, however, this is not the case."

In addition to causing relationship problems, the study found that inflated
self-images tend to cause divers to overestimate their personal finances.
Many of the instructor's participating were found to be living lifestyles
well beyond their means, taking monthly carribbean vacations, wearing
custom-made DUI dry-suits, and sporting a Nitek-3 on each arm. Several
instructors reported ordering closed circuit rebreathers.

"Even millionaires need to do some amount of basic budgeting," accountant
Morton Kessler said. "The sort of extravagant spending in which these divers
indulge--indiscriminately buying rebreathers, scooters, and fleets of double
tanks without any eye on the bottom line--is a recipe for financial
disaster."
According to UCLA Hospital psychiatrist Dr. Ernest Bloch, the distorted
sense of reality exhibited by many tech divers may indicate a predisposition
toward a wide range of serious mental disorders, including schizophrenia.

"Many of these divers create fictional, internal universes that, for them,
become a sort of alternate reality," Bloch said. "For example, a young
trimix instructor named Bill told me how IANTD has tapped his phones, and
how Dive Rite employees have switched his deco gases while he was diving. A
Boston area instructor by the name of "Gills" told me that he was recently
chased by CIA agents in shark suits but managed to escape when Hans Haas,
his dive partner, speared one of the agents and took his scooter. These
sorts of paranoid, delusional fantasies are classic warning signs of
schizophrenia, and an afflicted diver's condition can deteriorate to the
point where he is completely insane in the membrane."

Danziger urged divers suffering from unrealistically high self-images to get
help now, before their problems grow worse.
"Early detection is crucial, as treatment only becomes more difficult as
time goes on," Danziger said. "Remember: These divers' underwater skills
won't stay sharp forever, and when they do fall off--and these divers become
injured, and the students go elsewhere--there is almost always a
corresponding depression. We need to recognize that, deep down, these
divers' boasts are actually a desperate shout-out for help."

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